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MEETING THE SHADOW: The Hidden Power Of The Dark Side Of Human Nature
by Zweig, Connie
ISBN: 087477618X
Publisher: Putumayo
One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.C.G.Jung Rage ... jealousy ... lying... resentment... blaming... greed... These forbidden feelings and behaviors arise from the dark, denied part of ourselves -- the personal shadow. Everyone has a shadow, which begins to develop in childhood as a result of stuffing away negative feelings in order to build a proper ego. We encounter our shadow when we feel an unexplainable dislike of someone, when we uncover a longburied, unacceptable trait in ourselves, or when we feel overwhelmed by anger, envy, or shame. But the shadow is not only an individual problem. Groups and nations have a collective shadow, which can lead to dangerous actions, such as racism... scapegoating... enemy-making... and war. In a collection of 65 wide-ranging articles, Meeting the Shadow presents an overview of the dark side of human nature as it appears in families, intimate relationships, sexuality, work, spirituality, the New Age, politics, psychotherapy, and creativity. It also offers tools for individual development by teaching shadow-work, which enables us to -- achieve a more genuine and complete self-acceptance -- defuse the negative emotions that erupt in daily life -- release the guilt and shame associated with negativity -- recognize the projections that color our opinions about others -- heal our relationships through deeper authenticity -- and use writing, drawing, and dreams to reclaim the disowned parts of ourselves. Although we think of the shadow as containing only darkness, as Jung stated, its essence is "pure gold."
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