Shape your ritual, write your vows, engage community support, and focus on the life passage that the wedding ceremony is. Hundreds of ideas for a memorable day. Traditional/non-traditional, gay commitment ceremonies, second marriages, handfastings. Great gift for couples! Evans, an ordained minister who has been personalizing wedding ceremonies for over a decade, also discusses the ceremony's format and provides worksheets and notes for parents. She covers not only traditional weddings but commitment ceremonies for gays, second marriages, handfastings and more. 120 pages. first in the "Rites to Remember" series.